Quote of The Day!!!

“Whatever someone did to you in the past has no power over the present. Only you give it power.”

Oprah Winfrey


Don’t Let The Past Haunt You!

Happy Monday Evening My Beautiful Dolls!

I bless your eye presence this evening with one sentence of advice….:

Don’t become bitter!

It’s a nasty trait, an ugly practice, and could possibly be a disease. Live freely, live each day like its the first day, by not letting an ugly past haunt you.



NJ’s Blog Princess

Women: 2nd to None…

“You can’t keep a good woman down.”

Alice Walker told us all.

Women are truly one of kind. All the barriers we face. All the pain we endure. But nothing seems to stop us. Just take a deep look at the number of Single Women raising children. We’re always left to carry the heavy loads. No matter what hurt we endure we always pick back up and keep going embracing smiles to others. Always enchanting because we have no other choice but to be. We never get a break to just stay down and out. There’s no time, there’s no pause; we just have to keep going.

Before I began to blog today..I sat down and thought hard about women that I’ve ran across in my life. Those before me, those after me, and those presently standing beside me; out of all those women I can’t think of one who didn’t obtain a struggle in their life but picked right back up and kept pushing like the struggle never existed.

Women are truly remarkable…that’s why you always hear people saying “Ain’t nothing like Momma.” And it’s not.

Women truly ROCK! It’s no doubt about it. Pat yourself on the back….

Keep Pushing!
Keep Going!
Keep Smiling!
Keep Loving!
Keep Laughing!
Keep Living!

Quote of The Day…

“Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake entire relationships.”

Couldn’t say I agree more. I have a friend who’s been dating this dude for 3 years now. Basically live together and everything. But the dude has a problem with being committed to her. Everything they do speaks relationship except for the fact of him being faithful and him actually addressing her as his girlfriend.

Pretty sickening huh?

But that’s true reality. Too many women out here are in a relationship with a single man. It’s truly sad that you have some men doing this. Like these are the same men that have mothers, sisters, daughters, aunts, and grandmothers. How can you treat any woman like that? Especially to the fact of faking a relationship.

Here’s my piece of advice to those ladies:

If he ain’t ready to commit to you…move on! Let me say it again: If he ain’t ready to commit to you move on! Save yourself the heartache and the headache. Trust me! Take it from someone who has been in that situation. Don’t trick yourself into waiting for him or saving yourself to the hope that he will wake up one day and tell you he wants to be with you. It won’t happen! Life is too short….it’s better to be by yourself than to wait on someone.

Happy Wednesday Good People! 🙂

Quote of The Day…

Moms Mabley quoted:

“Love is like playing checkers. You have to know which man to move.”

I couldn’t agree more. How many of you spend time investing yourselves in people that aren’t even worth it?

How many of you try to make someone the one for you when they aren’t?

How many of you have spent time in a relationship for 2 years or more and it didn’t work out?

Your wasting time. Life is too short to be wasting time on the wrong person. We have to be wiser and smarter at this thing called love. Some of us are so scared of being alone that we try to make every relationship work, when in fact it was a failure before it even got started.

There’s obviously no smart way to play love but I will offer this one piece of advice…before you begin investing time…put all your hormones to the side, place your feelings on pause, and let your brain take control. List out all the pros and cons of investing time in this particular individual and then go from there.

Happy Monday Good People! 🙂


There are many single ladies out there searching for Mr. Right. A lot of guys claim they don’t know what it is a woman wants in a guy or what they need from a guy. I thought about this for a while last night and I’m a little puzzled myself…so I pose the question to all of you. “What is a Man to a Woman in a relationship?” This question is posed from a woman’s perspective but I invite men to answer as well.